Advice

Parents! We're here for you.

 
 

Children will bring both blessings and great stress to your divorce experience.

 

The blessings arise from the love and company children offer – they will be there to cheer you and hug you when you really need it, make you laugh when you are in a black hole, and give you a reason to keep going when checking out seems inviting.
  

The stress arises when they need more comfort, care and support than you have the time, energy and other resources to give, in these tough circumstances.

 

One way or another, parenting is an intense experience! When the intensity can be a burden, we are going to bring you help and company to see you through.
 
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Browse through the material we have gathered for you so far and watch for the material we shall be bringing you from professionals  and experienced parents.
Preventing Parentectomy After Divorce Advice
After or during divorce, many parents wilfully alienate the other parent from the life of a child. This is a "psychological crime" and will do irreversible damage to the child. Read this brilliant but disturbing paper delivered by an expert in the field. Keep parents and children in touch with one another! ? View
Tips & Advice for Handling Divorce Positively Advice
Useful practical tips and considerations to limit the affect of divorce on the children ? View
'Care' (previously 'Custody') Defined Advice
At last we have a detailed definition of the extent of the duty of 'care' or 'custody'. Here is the actual definition from the Children's Act ? View
Childrens Act # 2 - New Terms for 'Custody' & 'Access' Advice
The Childrens Act has changed some terminology. The old words will still be with us for a long time, as they appear in court orders, agreements, reported court cases and the minds of the public. here is a brief introduction to the new terms. ? View
Divorce: 10 Ways to Help Children Cope Advice
These are some of the ways you can help your children cope with the stress of divorce. ? View
Changing Care (Custody) After Divorce - Shortened Advice
Don't rush into a court application to change care (custody) arrangmements - there is more to this than meets the eye. Thisa is the shortened version. The full version is available to members of Divorcelink only. ? View
Changing Care (Custody) After Divorce Advice
Things to consider when thinking about a change in care (custody) arrangements after divorce ? View
Resolve 'Care' (Custody) Disputes Creatively, Peacefully Advice
The decision as to who should have custory or 'care' of the child often leads to an acrimonious battle. This nees not be so. Here is the first part of a useful article. ? View
A Win-Win Approach to Custody (aka 'Care') Advice
The custody (or 'Care' as it is now known) decision need not be decided after a 'war'. Here are some useful tips for resolving this dispute ? View
Children's Act - Best Interests; Section 7 Advice
What does the term "the best interests of a child" mean? Here's what the Act says. ? View
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